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Monday, February 23, 2009

Is It True Love?

How do you know is it love or not? How do you know it's real and not treating like best friends? How can you identify? This got me thinking.

I can still remember vaguely, in NSCFL, one of the speakers talked about BGR, which stands for Boy-Girl Relationship. He did tell about how to check whether it's true love or it's fake.

The first checkpoint. What do you find attractive about this person? Does he or she has certain characteristics you like about? Or you like the person's personality?

The second checkpoint, do you really know this person? Sometimes, we tend to jump the gun. Meaning, getting together in first sight, and not deeply knowing him or her.

The third, test of time. How has it been from then till now? Many quarrels? Peaceful and loving relationship?

Another checkpoint is personal impact. How are you affected by this relationship? Do how often feel sad because of him or her? Or always feel you're in seventh heaven? Do you often feel troubled?

The last and final checkpoint is, what others think of us. Do they think we're suitable? Most importantly, do both parents agree? I think a relationship will not work out 100% if parents do not agree.

Love is such a complicated thing. It takes ages to find the prefect one for yourself.

13 comments:

FZTeng said...

dun be copy cat~

Daniel Ting said...

lol...
copy wad?
haha...

Da Niu said...

chiim... wah .. cannot understand ..difficult to comprehend !! hehe

Daniel Ting said...

haha...
love is SO complicated.

FZTeng said...

yaya~
so,what is love~
daniel~
a question,u love ur Ex-girlfriend not?

Daniel Ting said...

haha...
i dun know how to answer.

FZTeng said...

nvm,2moro just gv me new answer~

Anonymous said...

For all the questions you mentioned, no matter what the answers you get, always remember to check with our Friend up there=)

Anonymous said...

Love may seem important to you right now. Always remember there is someone perfect watching over you, one which love you more than anyone else. Look to Him and he will direct your path.

Daniel Ting said...

i'm writing this on a suggestion of a friend.

Choocolate said...

老实说,像爱这种东西应该是无法完完全全的分辨出真假的吧!
每一次,应该都是很单方面的靠感觉……
自己有什么感受是最重要的……

所以有人才会说:“爱是自由的”

Daniel Ting said...

true true....

Joyce TJL said...

*sobs*
Oh...I'm touched~~~
You actually have a HEART and a BRAIN!!!! Haihhh~ Being patient with you really pays off ehh???? XP
Hahaha~
Kiddn~ Good post and WAKE UP CALL TO ALL TEENAGERS OF TODAY!

JTJL