As life goes on, you get to know yourself better and better, and realize how harsh life is. As the saying goes, "Life itself is one's harshest lessons in one's life."
Why must one go through so many lessons in life? The only de-stressing pill I have is by reading story books. I've been reading the The Five-Outers and Dog by Enid Bylton. This book has been around for the past 70 years. Imagine that!