Is It True Love?

How do you know is it love or not? How do you know it's real and not treating like best friends? How can you identify? This got me thinking.

I can still remember vaguely, in NSCFL, one of the speakers talked about BGR, which stands for Boy-Girl Relationship. He did tell about how to check whether it's true love or it's fake.

The first checkpoint. What do you find attractive about this person? Does he or she has certain characteristics you like about? Or you like the person's personality?

The second checkpoint, do you really know this person? Sometimes, we tend to jump the gun. Meaning, getting together in first sight, and not deeply knowing him or her.

The third, test of time. How has it been from then till now? Many quarrels? Peaceful and loving relationship?

Another checkpoint is personal impact. How are you affected by this relationship? Do how often feel sad because of him or her? Or always feel you're in seventh heaven? Do you often feel troubled?

The last and final checkpoint is, what others think of us. Do they think we're suitable? Most importantly, do both parents agree? I think a relationship will not work out 100% if parents do not agree.

Love is such a complicated thing. It takes ages to find the prefect one for yourself.